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Here's a bonus strategy: To keep your attitude and sense of self and fulfillment up - and the pain controlled - take the opportunity to create a zone in your world to affirm your value. What you need to do is create an Ego Wall.
An Ego Wall is a place where you hang your awards, certificates, diplomas, pictures, plaques, etc. - all the things that pump up your opinion and belief in yourself. On my Ego Wall I've got pictures of me snowboarding, skydiving, my day at a race car school, my college diploma, my martial arts certificates, etc. It's affirming to me, and when other women see it, they understand that I'm not just waiting around on the sidelines of life - I go out and actively pursue what I want. This is immensely attractive to women. Make yourself an ego-wall to help you through those painful moments in your learning process. And remember: Pain is nothing more than the sensation of weakness leaving your body. |
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Single Breath Sentence
An Oxfordshire woman today became the first ever to break the thirty minute barrier for talking without drawing breath. Mrs.Mavis Sommers,48, of Cowley, smashed the previous record of 23 minutes when she excitedly reported an argument she'd had in the butchers to her neighbour. She ranted on for a staggering 32 minutes and 12 seconds without pausing for air, before going blue and collapsing in a heap on the ground. She was taken to Radcliffe Infirmary in a wheelbarrow but was released later after check-ups. At the peak of her mammoth motormouth marathon, she achieved an unbelievable 680 words per minute, repeating the main points of the story an amazing 114 times whilst her neighbour, Mrs. Dolly Knowles, nodded and tutted. The last third of the sentence was delivered in a barely audible croak, the last two minutes being mouthed only, accompanied by vigorous jesticulations and indignant spasms. |
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He who conquers his own heart, who is in control of his own emotions, is the real victor in life. Women can't stand a man who is always complaining and whining about his problems. Not only is it a bore, but it's a sign of him being UNABLE TO COPE, and the most important sexual criteria for a man has been his ability to survive and pass that ability on to his children.
I know a lot of guys who feel that part of being with a woman is to be able to share your sorrows and your triumphs with her- well, save the sorrows till after you have already celebrated your 1 year anniversary, because otherwise you'll never get to that point. (and even then, keep the whining to a bare minimum). This goes back to forces beyond our conscious control. It stems from what was from an evolutionary point of view, the mark of a man who could SURVIVE and provide SURVIVAL for his family. |
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But here is the SECOND PART:
If you want to KEEP her *special*, you must STAY IN COMPLETE CONTROL. If she starts to complain without good reason, if she starts to act up, if she does ANYTHING that doesn’t feel right....chances are she is TESTING to see if you are STILL a man. She wants to see if you are STILL as masculine as when she MET you. Remember, with women, it's not so much your BODY that tells her you are a MAN...it's your MASCULINE DOMINANT BEHAVIOR. You must BLOW APART all her attempts to control you- and all her complaints and misbehaviors are attempts at controlling you. These misbehaviors and attempts at control by her are nothing more and nothing less than her TESTING your masculinity. If you always immediately SHOW her you are A MAN, and she will go back to treating you WELL. Allow me to add, that you must BLOW APART these tests from women with TOTAL CALM on your part. Part of testing you...is testing you to see if you LOSE YOUR MASCULINE COOL. |
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