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It's all about posture. They don't know that you're feeling the way you are unless you A) Tell them, or B) Don't do anything. You see, the truth is that if you don't do it, your situation doesn't get one bit better. If you do something, you'll reap rewards.
Even if you don't get the results you want, you'll still feel better having done something anyway. Waiting is just a clever way we invent for making it okay to go on losing. Remember: It's better to regret the things you did than the things you didn't. |
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You can raise your standards in many ways, be it their looks, their specific characteristics, personality traits, etc. Personally, my highest standards go for personality, because every woman has the power to have a good personality and when gorgeous women see that their looks cannot hypnotize me they try harder to be fun people as well.
When you raise your standards, you become the SELECTOR, instead of the SELECTEE. And this stirs in a woman a whole lot of that thing called sexual desire. So be bold, and stop *hoping* to get a chance with a sexy woman. Instead, hope that SHE has a chance with YOU. Let this attitude show in your initial approach, by not kissing the ground she walks on. Have fun and tease her like you would a good buddy. Without telling her directly, let her know you've got standards too, just like she does. |
And you should be PROACTIVE about behaviors that are consistent with the philosophy outlined above:
i.e. if you have plans with a friend for an evening, and a woman calls you up, KEEP YOUR PLANS WITH YOUR FRIEND instead of canceling the plans so you can go out with the woman. This is CONGRUENT with the philosophy of not kissing up to women as if they were the gods in charge of your happiness. After all, if you don't NEED women, why would you ditch your friends for a woman? I see so many guys who will be talking to a woman, and when a guy they know says hi and is walking by, the guy will ignore him so he can worship the woman. Awwwwww man it hurts to watch this, cause I know where he is going to end up in a few weeks or months- The woman will DUMP him and he won't know why, He'll be telling me *But I treated her so WELL!* If you want to develop EMOTIONAL STRENGTH, you MUST at first consciously make decisions to live that way, until it becomes natural. If you can conquer these fears based on total lies, you will have the confidence and energy to accomplish almost anything in life. For most guys, handling the area of their life called *women* is a massive DRAIN on their energy. It doesn't have to be this way. |
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