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A guy could read for years on all the best *methods* for meeting and attracting women, but unless he takes ACTION, nothing is going to happen. The problem with not taking action, is that it doesn't get easier to take action by waiting and doing nothing...
As a matter of fact, it gets HARDER to take action the more you wait, because you come up with reasons why you should NOT take action. And if you allow yourself the OPTION of waiting, you will ALWAYS choose it over the option of actually taking action, because doing NOTHING poses NO RISK. |
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Exactly.
Now let's say you had to GUESS about what type of guy each guy is, and what is going ON in each of their lives. And you're GUT feeling about each guy. Two very different pictures, right? One seems kind of a sad picture. A guy who drinks alone, maybe is alone at work and not popular, maybe is boring, who has no self-confidence. The other seems HAPPENING. Well, I'm here to tell you that the ONLY difference is that ONE of these guys has LEARNED the language to convey intrinsic worth, and the other one has NOT. THIS is LANGUAGE- body language, behavior, words, attitude. It is the way COOL GUYS COMMUNICATE that they are sexually desirable to women. And the good news is that this language actually is not haphazard once it's explained to you. COOL really boils down to: CONVEYING THE AURA OF SUPERIOR INTRINSIC WORTH. |
By not getting jealous, she sees that YOU are in control, (EMOTIONAL STRENGTH) and presto- she feels ATTRACTION for you.
Of course, if a woman is playing constant games with you, like CONSTANTLY trying to make you jealous, you DUMP her and laugh as she comes running back to you the next week, day, or hour. The whole issue of jealousy is an important topic, which I cover in detail in my book, but for now, just remember that jealousy is usually provoked by a woman as a TEST to see how much you care about her. If you fail the test and go nuts with insecurity then feels you must be pretty desperate for her. And of course, this means her attraction for you will WEAKEN. Now, does this make sense? Not on the surface: Why should a woman try to drive you nuts with jealousy to see if you care? But in a woman’s mind, the thinking is: BECAUSE IF A MAN CARES TOO MUCH, TO THE POINT OF FEELING DESPERATE, THEN HE IS EMOTIONALLY VULNERABLE. AND EMOTIONALLY VULNERABLE GUYS ARE NOT MANLY MEN WHO COULD SURVIVE THE DANGERS OF LIFE. And I want you now to remember something: |
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He does not get steered off course when women test him on his commitment to those decisions. I know many women who have confidentially told me that when a guy asks for their number, they will purposely say they don't give out their number, JUST TO SEE IF HE IS DOMINANT ENOUGH TO NOT TAKE ONE *NO* for an answer.
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