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The double standard is that there is this MYTH that somehow a woman’s affection is worth more than a man’s. As if men enjoyed women but women did not enjoy men. Why do I say this? Simple: Most men go OUT OF THEIR WAY to get a woman’s attention and affection, buying endless dinners, doing favors, giving compliments, endless respect, even if the woman is NOT interested! Or worse, even if the woman is MIStreating them.
Do women do this for men? Of course not. If you are a guy who grew up observing this phenomenon, it would be easy to get the wrong idea and think that women need to be persuaded, tricked, impressed, appeased, or bribed in order to be sexual with a man. |
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I enjoy meeting women in regular everyday life situations like grocery shopping, bookstores, malls, etc, because it's more relaxing since I'm already there and am not expending much energy in the process. Also these women are there not in order to show off as they might in a club.
By the way, I've noticed that the places where I expend the LEAST energy I usually get the BEST results- whether it’s the post office, mall, or train. I have actually experimented and found that certain malls and stores just FEEL more my style than other malls, and of course I will have even better results there. So the bottom line to remember here is that there are tons of individual things like: -Where the women are in YOUR area. -When are you at YOUR best. |
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There was an occasional hug, an occasional
kiss on the cheek from her... and once she even held his hand for a long time while he talked about an emotional issue. But something was wrong with the picture. She just wasn't acting like a woman that was *falling in love*. She was acting like a friend. The insecurity that he felt became a spiral that amplified itself... and the more insecure he became, the more afraid he grew of *screwing things up* by kissing her or asking her to be his girlfriend. Plus, the more insecure he became, the less time she seemed to want to spend with him. |
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