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It is possible to learn how to communicate that you're a *sexually aware, confident man* using your body language and voice tone. Learning this skill will make attracting women MUCH easier. Unfortunately, most men are too caught up in the idea of being macho and independent to work on this area of their life... and as a result, they waste most of their time in *quiet desperation*, never seeing any real improvement because they don't seek help and use the help to improve.
In short, if you don't know whether or not you project the kind of body language and voice tone that makes women feel that emotional jolt of sexual attraction, then you can bet your last dollar that you aren't. What's a guy to do? Learn it, then use it. When I first started learning about how to meet women, I can remember thinking that I needed to learn pick up lines and other tricks. I had no idea that this stuff was basically useless without the all-important understanding of how body language works. After a lot of trial and error, I started to realize that when my body language and voice tone were correct, I could say ALMOST ANYTHING to women, and they would feel ATTRACTION. |
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Use confident posture.
Most men I see hold themselves in a way that says *I am not very confident about myself or anything I'm saying*. And most of the guys I know who are chick MAGNETS hold themselves in a way that says *I'm the dominant male in this situation... I own this place*. Suck in your stomach, hold your head up and back, pull your shoulders back, arch your back... and generally hold yourself like you're the most powerful person you've ever seen or heard of. Yea, I know this sounds dorky, but do it anyway. You'll probably feel strange and self conscious at first, but not to worry. If you continue to practice your confident posture, you'll soon become comfortable with it. And more important, you'll attract attention from women. Remember, women aren't interested in finding another average Wuss Boy. Women aren't ATTRACTED to WUSSIES. Carry yourself like a manly man, and attractive women will notice and have INSTANT positive unconscious reactions to you. |
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Well guess what? There's nothing wrong with a woman thinking you might be interested in her, AS LONG AS YOU DO NOT COME ACROSS AS A BAD CATCH!
And the way to show you are a *GOOD* catch is to NOT be serious. *Serious* approaches can sometimes seem like *desperate* approaches, since a woman will subconsciously think, *Why is the guy so serious? Does he not already have plenty of women around him?* Unless it is OBVIOUS that a woman is interested in you already, (in that case you can be more direct) serious approaches make women wonder if you are a loser since they wonder why are you placing so much SERIOUSNESS on it in the first place!!! |
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home up Are you in search of that someone special to be more than just friends are? Learn to read more into the written words. Find descriptions such as ‘looking for love’, ‘searching for that someone special’, ‘more than friends’, ‘quiet and cozy’, ‘easy going and lovable’, ‘special times’, ‘treasured moments’, and words similar to ‘lovable’. | |||