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You are NOT attracted to her on a sexual level because you both enjoy English literature.
So let me tell you the PRIMARY reason SHE would be attracted to YOU: It would be because you EMANATE MASCULINE POWER through being dominant, confident, and having loads of self-esteem. This is SEXY AS HELL to her. Everything ELSE is HOGWASH. When I say everything else, I really do mean EVERYTHING: You know, those things like LOGIC? Or like being a *nice* guy? FORGET IT. This is why women often love BAD BOYS. BAD BOYS do whatever they want and fear nothing. And they explain NOTHING. You don't have to be a jerk, but you MUST be A MAN. It doesn't COST anything to do this. It's not something that is only available to the rich, or to any other exclusive group. |
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Don't get too clever with approach lines. Just take a look at her and find something you can ask her about. Is she wearing a cool watch? A nice necklace? Nice shoes? Then you come up to her and say: *Hi, I noticed your watch/shoes/whatever, and I wondered if you got that in this neighborhood? I'm looking for something for my sister.* Then, always follow up with a teasing comment: *I mean, she's a lot younger than you, but you're pretty fashionable for an old lady.* And give a big smile to show her you're busting her balls. If she gets indignant or weird, you excuse yourself and move on. But that's pretty rare. More than likely, you've got yourself a conversation with a woman. Congratulations!
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One of the most powerful principles for success with women I discovered completely by accident. When I first started out trying to approach women in public places, I tried to be everything- funny, energetic, smart, entertaining, up-beat, smiling, helpful- you name it.
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And I tried to pack it all in as fast as I could, because I figured I only have a few seconds or a minute till she may have to go. I figured if I don't convey VALUE to her, fast, then she might reject me, etc.
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But when a woman is being a *nice* person, it has NOTHING to do with what she finds SEXY in a man. She does NOT find the same behaviors of *niceness* to be SEXY when they are exhibited by a man. For example, when a woman is helping someone less fortunate, let's say a beggar, by giving him some money, it is her SYMPATHY. She feels NOTHING sexual for him, most likely she feels he is repulsive in a sexual sense.
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Now, I'm NOT saying to become a selfish mean person who she could never appreciate on a *nice* level, I’m not suggesting you become a royal prick or cruel person, but I AM saying do NOT emphasize any *NICE* characteristics when you are with a WOMAN. Most men make the terrible mistake of trying to appeal to a woman's sense of being *good*, a woman's sense of being *nice* by doing NICE things for a woman, hoping to get reciprocation from her.
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Don't drink too much! Even worse, don't get drunk. Women are very turned off by drunk men. Plus, if all you do is drink all night, this is wasted time that you should be spending approaching and meeting women. I recommend that you do your drinking at home before you go out. Then just sip on cokes when you get to the bar. What I used to do is order a glass of wine and sip on it all night. This will save a lot of money on your bar tap too.
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