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As long as you are with a woman who is treating you with respect and not playing games, it’s AWESOME to be a GOOD GUY. And when a woman is treating you well, being a good guy should come NATURALLY. If a woman is mistreating you, the answer is not to become a “jerk”, the answer is to DUMP her. If you try to play the same “game” by becoming a “jerk”, even if you WIN, you actually LOSE.
The reason you lose is because when you decide to “win” someone who is clearly not good for you, you are telling yourself that there is no other superior option for you. And that takes you back to negativity and low self-esteem, which only leads down a path of darkness. When you put passion before principle, you always lose, one way or another. But when you put principle before passion, you always win, no matter how hard it seems. Because your self-esteem is nothing but you living in harmony with your own principles. Stay focused and remember that an exceptional woman is just as rare as an exceptional guy. |
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At lunch yesterday I saw this really great looking classy girl. She was obviously having lunch with some co-workers, as was I. We made eye contact a few times and exchanged smiles. How does one go about approaching her? If she *separated from the pack* I could have maybe done something. Is this a lost cause for future encounters of this type?
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If you failed, or didn't do well, chances are that the failures didn't bother you as much when you were younger. So, you were also likely to persevere long enough to get good so that you built that confidence anyway. If you didn't persevere, you dropped that skill and got no confidence.
This is typically what happens to most men with women. Without knowing the basic rules of engagement (military engagement, not marriage engagement), they stumbled into the arena of women and fell flat on their face. Some persisted, others didn't. |
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