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But when a woman is being a *nice* person, it has NOTHING to do with what she finds SEXY in a man. She does NOT find the same behaviors of *niceness* to be SEXY when they are exhibited by a man. For example, when a woman is helping someone less fortunate, let's say a beggar, by giving him some money, it is her SYMPATHY. She feels NOTHING sexual for him, most likely she feels he is repulsive in a sexual sense.
Now, I'm NOT saying to become a selfish mean person who she could never appreciate on a *nice* level, I’m not suggesting you become a royal prick or cruel person, but I AM saying do NOT emphasize any *NICE* characteristics when you are with a WOMAN. Most men make the terrible mistake of trying to appeal to a woman's sense of being *good*, a woman's sense of being *nice* by doing NICE things for a woman, hoping to get reciprocation from her. |
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It's important to realize that in order to convey something to a woman, you must understand how WOMEN interpret things, even if the way they interpret things is COMPLETELY WRONG!
#1. NOT BEING DESPERATE AT ALL First of all, anything that indicates EFFORT to dating to her, on your part, is a signal to a woman that you are desperate. Notice I said EFFORT, not COURAGE. Let me give you examples of indicating too much effort: You see a woman in a mall, walking, and she is FAR away from you. If you want to approach her, do not let her see that you are running half way across the mall to approach her! Instead, you should set it up so that you walk ahead of her without her noticing that you have noticed HER, then casually slow down, turn a bit as if you are looking at something, and VOILA- she just *happens* to walk right toward you. NOW you can do your thing- after all, she was right in front of you, right- it was NO BIG DEAL...lol |
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