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I believe this is the attitude that has turned women on since the beginning of human history. No matter what the culture, or time, or the *trend*, women have been attracted to courageous men with guts and fortitude. Whether it's the ancient stories of Samson and Delilah, (By the way, Samson’s greatest mistake was when he let Delilah CONTROL him, which was when she started to betray him) or whether it was James Dean, or James Bond, or the heroes of today's movies, women are attracted to men who convey masculinity, control, and NO FEAR.
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A woman cannot HELP but feel attraction when you activate all the behaviors and cues that TRIGGER attraction!! And unless you display these cues, nothing else on earth will make one bit of difference.
PRIMAL sexual attraction is not stimulated by getting a woman to CONSCIOUSLY THINK about who she should be with. It's not activated by *good judgment*. So forget about trying to appeal to a woman's sense of *good sexual judgment*. When men try to appeal to her sense of good judgment, they are trying to appeal to something that does not exist. It's totally beyond all rational thought. The problem is that what nature gave for women as *a sense of good judgment in guys* was actually designed for an environment that no longer exists. |
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And at the end of it all, you'll not only end up with someone who's perfect for you, but also with someone who clearly wants to be there.
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Again, most guys go about this the wrong way. They try to build the connection through nodding to everything the woman says, instead, build the connection through BEING THE MAN, the most desirable man, who does not just nod like a dummy, but as he listens to a woman dating, he hones in on the HEART of what she is communicating, and using his INTELLIGENCE and LEADERSHIP, he plunges even DEEPER into the ESSENCE of what she is communicating to convey deep understanding.
As the great conservative leader Madonna said: *Love is understanding*. You don't have to kiss up to a woman to UNDERSTAND her perspectives. You MUST quickly help her feel that you are sexy, cool, and that you both share a connection- otherwise, you will find she will *flake* on you- i.e. not answer your emails, etc, etc. |
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