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This is because women come *pre-wired* with an internal template of what comprises a desirable mate, and a set of emotional trigger buttons that, when pushed, create that powerful emotional response called ATTRACTION that compels her to mate with the man who triggers it.

Most men have no idea that this mechanism exists or how to trigger it, so they do traditional *nice guy* things like buying dinners, gifts, and flowers... and giving women compliments... and calling them all the time (which usually have the OPPOSITE of the desired effect when used too much, and too early on).

As I got to know more and more guys who were REALLY GOOD with women, I started to see that they weren't afraid to make fun of attractive women, bust on them, and even challenge them... but it was always done in a VERY FUNNY, even charming way.

At first I just assumed that it was the fact that this pattern was just a technique that my friends were using to make conversation.

Only after really paying attention, trying out this technique myself quite a bit, and LOOKING CLOSELY AT THE ACTUAL RESPONSES I WAS GETTING did I begin to realize the UNBELIEVABLY POWERFUL EMOTIONAL RESPONSES that this one concept was generating.

And after working on it, testing it, refining it, and studying the finer points about women, men, and the whole *mating process* did I begin to really understand how well this worked.

Most guys in college can barely get a date. Most women in college can’t keep up with all the offers. Does anybody in their right mind think that this has no effect on morale, motivation, stress, and persistence?

Most women grow up with TOO MUCH attention from men, plain and simple.

So most women, while they are young and attractive, cannot appreciate things like a man’s faithfulness. First of all, women are not interested in settling down so fast, they have too much “fun” offers that they can’t turn down. And second, since there are so MANY men willing to be faithful and who would never suspect that their girlfriend is cheating on them, many women take advantage of this and get to thus have their cake and eat it too.

Why are men so ignorant of all this?

That’s because culture and also the women’s movement (which did accomplish some worthy goals) did one heck of a job making men feel like evil demons. As if all men were womanizing cheaters. As if men were just a bunch of brutes who only used their superior muscle and strength to hurt women and not to help women.


The joke about her watching the Flintstones for knowledge is GUTSY and CONFIDENT.. and FUNNY.

Everything you do with a woman, must be combined with conveying that you are the most desirable man on the planet- confident, popular, successful, and worthy of trust. This does NOT mean to lie. It means to put your BEST FOOT FORWARD, through all the SUBTLE yet crucial nuances that convey you are the BEST. Listen, women prep themselves for HOURS with make-up themselves look the BEST that they can. Actually, it makes them look BETTER than they are, But nobody ever accuses women of being deceitful by wearing sexy clothing and makeup.

If you are going to give a compliment to a woman, or if you are going to give trust to a woman, do it through the prism of being the most desirable man- i.e. let her EARN it from you, and then believe me, she will value it far more, since it came from someone who is selective.

Okay, number three, establishing the connection.
When you’re cool, and you are talking to women, you’re not worried about what women THINK of you. You feel that they must be worthy of you just as much as they feel you must be worthy of them.

As a matter of fact, once you adopt this way of thinking, you will not be able to comprehend how you could possibly NOT chat with a woman out of fear.

There is nothing to fear:
A COOL PERSONALITY is what counts the most, (no, this is NOT a load of bull) all you have to do is just KEEP IT REAL- have a COOL CONVERSATION, not some desperate, approval seeking, boring, manipulative conversation.