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THAT is what WOMEN are attracted to, and for good reason- for over a million years, a woman needed such characteristics in a man for SURVIVAL. When I talk about SELF-ESTEEM, I mean HUGE DOSES OF THIS STUFF. So much so that you feel DAMN GREAT ABOUT YOURSELF.
For all the talk about women and body image and them having low self-esteem, I believe most men are suffering from low self-esteem as well, since they find that all their misguided yet endless struggle to attract women usually yields no results. Attractive women just sit there and have guys approach them. Even a woman who is not so attractive could still get her share of male attention if she takes basic action. But guys go around trying hard to meet women, doing the hogwash that society teaches them to do, and they keep hitting a brick wall. |
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How to relax is perhaps beyond the scope of this newsletter, but I will give you some pointers:
- Relaxation starts with your physical presentation. SLOW DOWN! Move slower and talk a little slower. That will help you pace yourself into a calm zone. - Don't overdo the caffeine. I joked about the double-Espresso, but too much caffeine is not good for you, as well as making you a bundle of hyper-kinetic nerves. It's like being around a low-grade crack addict. |
There are many systems and methods out there in the marketplace that claim to teach you how to be more successful with women. But what I have found, after spending years researching this topic, is that there is far, far too much emphasis on *techniques* and *lines* and *acting*.
There are many problems with that approach. First of all, it does not feel natural. And although every man wants success with women, he also wants to feel he is dealing with a human being, not a robot who can be programmed to do his bidding. |
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