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| So what about your profile, read over the words again. Does the profile really express your thoughts about a relationship, what type of relationship you are seeking and whom you are expecting to meet using the personal classifieds? Deciding what type of person you are searching for, what qualities you desire, and how far you want the relationship to mature are steps in realizing you are taking the right direction for meeting that someone special through the classifieds. Clarify your words, express your real thoughts and ideas about who you are seeking clearly which will aid those that are reading your profile connect easily with you. | |||
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See, you're a guy. Women don't think this way. And of course, since women feel and think differently, it's a HORRIBLE idea to use your logic with women.
Women actually are REPULSED by the behaviors described above. That's not to say women want to be mistreated - they don't - but they have ZERO attraction to *nice* guys. I use *nice* in quotes because *nice* in this sense means SUBMISSIVE. A woman will NOT be grateful AT ALL for those submissive behaviors. She'll actually treat you like dirt if you display those behaviors. Why, why, why, you ask? Well, women think that *nice* guys are DESPERATE guys. They think *NICE* behavior is DESPERATE, weak, butt-kissing behavior. This is especially true during the initial stages when a guy meets a woman. Later on, you can show occasional acts of *niceness* because you've proven you are NOT desperate. |
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Not only is a guy who does not lead look like a weakling, and is unsexy that way, but he also leaves all the guilt to HER. Women want a guy that can ELIMINATE the psychological guilt involved.
This is why it’s so important to IMMEDIATELY set the tone between you and a woman AS SOON AS YOU MEET HER. The INITIAL IMPRESSION you make will be the one that sticks the hardest with her. So if you are approaching a woman, you must IMMEDIATELY convey that you are LEADING the situation, that YOU are in the dominant position. Don’t make any goofy jokes that make you look like the class CLOWN who people laughed at but did not respect. However, using a TEASING sense of humor that shows you are CONFIDENT AS HELL and a little SUPERIOR makes her feel several things: 1 “Ah, this guy is a MAN, he is worthy of me, he is not a boy.” 2. This guy will LEAD the way to sex so I can “blame” it all on him and feel no guilt. 3. Since he takes charge, the sex will be UNINHIBITED and WILD, because he will LEAD me to a state of ECSTASY. |
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