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It looks like nothing, because his skills have been so integrated to the point of it being instinct- he doesn't even think about what he's doing, it just happens. The first thing that you must realize is that YOU are driving here, NOT HER. So she's not going to do your job.
If you are wearing stinking clothes, or out of fashion clothes, if you need a lesson in basic hygiene, if you don't ensure you have fresh breath, trust me, SHE IS NOT GOING TO TAKE CARE OF THIS FOR YOU. This is like putting SLUDGE into your gas tank and expecting your car to move. Nobody cares if your car doesn't work. They're not going to fix it for you unless you bring your car in and pay for it. It's YOUR car, your responsibility. YOU are in the driver's seat. |
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Now, make sure you read with both eyes and listen with both ears -- BUT be sure you're not looking for the fire unless you already smell the smoke...
After speaking at length with several private investigators and divorce attorneys, I'm going to share the top 7 *smoke signals* your husband or live-in boyfriend could not only have another woman out there, but perhaps a whole other family outside of his home with you: |
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realize that this may sound like an obvious statement, but judging by the emails that I get week in and week out, maybe it's not as obvious as it might seem to some guys. In fact, when I think back on my own experiences with women, I am DEFINITELY guilty of trying to bore women into feeling attracted to me...
So what do I mean by this silly sounding statement? Well, let's start with some ideas that I hear in one form or another all the time: *I was a perfect gentleman on our date, but she didn't call me back, and I can't reach her...* *I don't want to use any 'techniques' with women because I feel like that would be 'manipulating' her...* *I want a girl who will like me for who I am...* *I give her everything she wants, take her out, buy her things, and I don't understand why she doesn't feel the same way towards me that I feel towards her...* *She tells me that she only likes me as a friend, then she goes out with these guys who treat her like crap instead of going out with a guy like me that would treat her wonderfully and give her everything she wants...* |
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Managing Replies:
Unless you have shown a lot of weirdness in your profile, you should be getting some replies and requests for contact within a couple of days. You should attempt to reply to all messages you receive within two or three days, so the person doesn't lose interest in you. A fresh new reply to each message you get is recommended, don't 'copy and paste' the same reply to everyone. Be personal and friendly, but not too revealing about yourself. Check out their profile and see if your interested. Remember, don't judge a book by it's cover! |