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Now, let's say you saw another guy come in, who seemed a lot more relaxed, a good mood, he teases some girls about their wacky outfits, and as they laugh he winks, walks away and gets himself a drink. On the way there, he bumps into a couple of girls and tells them jokingly to stop feeling him up, and at the bar he casually starts talking to some girls beside him about some latest gossip about JLo and Ben Affleck.
Pretty soon, the original girls he met (who he has actually forgotten about since he planned to actually chat it up with ALL the girls there and so they were not the main thing on his mind) are walking by, they see him with these other girls and make eye contact anyway. Okay, FREEZE FRAME. Do you see what is going ON here? There is a LOT going on here. The first guy has done a set of actions that conveys a certain MESSAGE about himself. The SECOND guy has done a DIFFERENT set of actions and conveyed a DIFFERENT message about himself. |
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The double standard is that there is this MYTH that somehow a woman’s affection is worth more than a man’s. As if men enjoyed women but women did not enjoy men. Why do I say this? Simple: Most men go OUT OF THEIR WAY to get a woman’s attention and affection, buying endless dinners, doing favors, giving compliments, endless respect, even if the woman is NOT interested! Or worse, even if the woman is MIStreating them.
Do women do this for men? Of course not. If you are a guy who grew up observing this phenomenon, it would be easy to get the wrong idea and think that women need to be persuaded, tricked, impressed, appeased, or bribed in order to be sexual with a man. |
If she's looking left, something's not right. According to Bill Raduenz, private investigator, a person who looks up into the air and to the left when she speaks to you is *not being truthful.* The look left is an indication we're using the *creative* side of our brains and a good indicator she's telling you a whopper.
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The best example of busting balls (and the most harsh) is from the movie *Goodfellas.* There's a famous scene where Tommy DeVito (Joe Pesci) and Henry Hill (Ray Liotta) are in a restaurant after hours, and Joe Pesci's character stops the conversation in mid-laughter to ask Henry what he meant by a comment. *What do you mean, I'm a funny guy? What makes me so funny? Am I a clown?* The situation gets very tense because Tommy looks serious, and Tommy is a bit psycho. Henry starts to back down, getting a little scared. Then Henry figures out that Tommy is just pulling his chain, and they all get a laugh.
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