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#2: THE NET ALLOWS FOR GREATER DISCRETION

There is another benefit of the internet for women. You see, women still have this fear of being labeled a “slut” and the social disapproval that comes with that. But through the internet, she doesn’t have to worry about explaining her desires, she can just find a guy who has already made it clear either in his chat to her or in his profile, or by the sheer nature of a particular personals site, that he is looking for the same thing she is.

These days, there is a site for everyone, no matter WHAT you are looking for- whether it’s a relationship, something casual, something within your ethnicity, or something very bizarre and far-out- there is a site for it. All she has to do is just click and go for it. No embarrassing discussion for her, since she’s already been accepted by the very nature of the site.

And NO ONE else has to know a thing.

On the net, you can state what you want, and find someone who wants the same thing, and presto- you got it. Very direct, and very discreet. This is a HUGE factor that appeals to women.
Now in those days I didn't realize how many signals she was giving me, and how easily I could have gotten her number or probably even an instant date with her right then. But I did learn something massive: FORGET TRYING WITH WOMEN. All that trying makes you very *un-natural* and worst of all, you act like you are in a race, a competition to try to win her attention.

Your words come out like speeding bullets, your expression looks tense, you seem like a pathetic used car salesman giving a high powered pitch at 10,000 words per minute.

#5 BEING A WINNER
Women are attracted to men who are in CONTROL of their lives and their emotions. So being a pessimist, or full of hate, or being a whiner or complainer is not a good idea. Droopy posture doesn't help either. Equally important is being the kind of person who is passionate about life, who ENJOYS life, who has goals in life, and has a plan, and is putting the plan into action. FOR HIMSELF, NOT IN ORDER TO PLEASE ANY WOMAN.

Now, you could LIE about yourself, but why not actually find the things you are interested and passionate about and become involved in them? Most of what holds us back is fear, and when you abandon your fears and go for your goals, it not only makes your life more enjoyable, but others become drawn toward you as well. Since the beginning, women have needed men for survival, who could endure a hostile environment laden with numerous threats and unpredictable situations.

Think about the personality of a man who thrived in such an environment- he was a go-getter, he was not a pessimist, and yet he was also not living in a FANTASY, either he knew the realities and DEALT with them. Women still are attracted to that kind of man. And if you want to learn more about how to meet women ANYWHERE, how to take things from initial encounter to getting physical, to how to deal with any *tests* that women will throw your way, and how to succeed at a relationship if you desire to have one, then you need to download my eBook, The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women. In my eBook, I show you step-by-step what you need to know for total success with women. I cover everything from how to gain confidence, to explaining what women REALLY think but will NEVER tell you.

And it is because we foolishly try to become DISCONNECTED from our natural sexual state of mind when trying to succeed with women. We overcomplicate things with too much technical jargon and theory.

On an evolutionary level, we would have been wiped out if reproduction was so complicated.

Yet so many guys are behaving as if women need to be manipulated in order to have sex. If there's any manipulation that really has to occur, I would say it is to *manipulate* YOURSELF to do whatever it takes to get all those false ideas out of your head. Offer YOURSELF a reward for going up to a woman.

 

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These women will stay your online girls because that's very SAFE for them. They get attention and popularity in a way that never requires them to RISK.

My advice? Start getting rid of some of these girls by taking it to the next step. The ones that stick around are the ones you want to pursue. The others you never had anyway. You were just a collection of screen names on her AOL screen. If you can't get them to talk to you on a phone, you never had them to begin with.

Anyway we then moved onto a nearby club and she had become rather drunk (think Irishman in a Guinness factory on St Patrick's day) and so I offered to walk her to a taxi, to which she agreed, and on to way out I put my arm round her and her then moved to hold my hand, which was nice.

We then walked to the taxi and stopped to say goodbye. Anyway I thought that the handholding and the girlfriend comment were fairtly safe indicators (much better than dilated pupils or a flushing of her cheeks) so I moved in for the kiss. Carlos man, it was fantastic, for many different reasons... but mostly because I haven't had that level of intimacy in a while (since before I bought the books anyway), and and it was a great end to a good evening.

Anyway after we kissed (I pulled away
first... see I'm learning already) I walked her to the taxi door and she said thankyou for a grat evening and (word perfect) *If I didn't have a boyfriend, I'd go out with you*. Which is of course a compliment, but I honestly didn't know she was involved and didn't press the issue for tfear of ruining the mood. I don't believe in breaking up relationships, because I believe in the sanctity of them (maybe this makes me too much of a Nice Guy, but that's what comes from having parents who were married 25 years unitl death did do them apart)
No sex that night, huh? Not even from the ex, I'll bet.

It's great being the Nice Guy, huh?

Quite frankly, after being suckered into that pathetic display of ex-girlfriend *Yes, dear* behavior, I don't think you stand much of a chance with either of them. But if you want to turn it around, you should simply go ask the new girl out and pretend that nothing happened. As long as you weren't rude in your departure with your ex, she might have interpreted the situation as just another woman in your life that wants you. (Which would normally be good.)

And if you have to explain, just tell her you needed to help out your ex in a time of need. Don't answer apologetically whatever you do. Own up to the choice you made.

Again, it all depends on how you cut it short with the new girl as to whether you can go back. You say you *left her hanging,* which does not sound like you explained yourself well. Hey, at this point, you've got nothing to lose.

Not only is a guy who does not lead look like a weakling, and is unsexy that way, but he also leaves all the guilt to HER. Women want a guy that can ELIMINATE the psychological guilt involved.

This is why it’s so important to IMMEDIATELY set the tone between you and a woman AS SOON AS YOU MEET HER. The INITIAL IMPRESSION you make will be the one that sticks the hardest with her.

So if you are approaching a woman, you must IMMEDIATELY convey that you are LEADING the situation, that YOU are in the dominant position. Don’t make any goofy jokes that make you look like the class CLOWN who people laughed at but did not respect.

However, using a TEASING sense of humor that shows you are CONFIDENT AS HELL and a little SUPERIOR makes her feel several things:
1 “Ah, this guy is a MAN, he is worthy of me, he is not a boy.”
2. This guy will LEAD the way to sex so I can “blame” it all on him and feel no guilt.
3. Since he takes charge, the sex will be UNINHIBITED and WILD, because he will LEAD me to a state of ECSTASY.
Rule #5:

What to do if you become the victim of a *cyber stalker*.
Don't panic. Send an email to the service and report the person that is giving you unwarranted attention. Include details such as copies of emails and messages you have received, their user name and other information you know or have received. If the harassment has only been through electronic communication (online), close your account with the service where the harassment took place. Get a new account name and email address from your main ISP, or change ISP's. Cancel or close any web based email services and IM services that you have used to contact this person or that they have contacted you through.
If the harassment has been offline as well as online, contact your local police or authorities and make a formal complaint and statement against that person. Contact your local phone company and change your phone number.

Remember, the odds are in your favor that the people you meet are *normal* and will not harass you. But you can never be too safe and that is what we are trying to help you be, safe. Not paranoid, just safe.
These are the guidelines to follow to protect your privacy so that the unthinkable will not happen to you!