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One of the most powerful principles for success with women I discovered completely by accident. When I first started out trying to approach women in public places, I tried to be everything- funny, energetic, smart, entertaining, up-beat, smiling, helpful- you name it.
And I tried to pack it all in as fast as I could, because I figured I only have a few seconds or a minute till she may have to go. I figured if I don't convey VALUE to her, fast, then she might reject me, etc. |
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There's an old song by Gordon Lightfoot called Sundown, where he says *I can see her lookin fast in her faded jeans she's a hard lovin woman got me feelin mean*. The word *mean* hear does not mean *cruel*, but I think you could see how it is clear that the word *mean* here conjures the right attitude, an attitude of ATTRACTION and not WORSHIP.
Ahh, time for another eye-opener: IF YOU ARE BEING A MAN, AND FEELING GOOD ABOUT YOUR NATURAL ATTRACTION TO HER, INSTEAD OF FEELING ASHAMED OF IT, THEN YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT WHAT TO SAY SO MUCH. Whatever it is, keep it light, and then arrange what you want- a coffee date right then and there? *Hey, let's chat this over a coffee- there's a cafe/coffee house/whatever right there* Maybe you are on the run, so you'll just ask for her email. You are THE MAN, she is looking for you to LEAD, so it's UP TO YOU. Just BE A MAN, and feel comfortable with that, there is NOTHING wrong with you ENJOYING the feeling of being with a hot woman. And being a man, you have the privilege to TAKE ACTION and MAKE THE DECISIONS- it's what she WANTS you to do! And GUESS WHAT ELSE HAPPENS WHEN YOU ARE FEELING SEXUAL? YOU CANNOT FEEL FEAR. |
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